okayy so i have come to the conclusion that some people[[friends]] change, in bad ways. I mean i realize that as people when we get older we grow and change. But i mean like one year you all are cool and tell eachother everything and talk on the phone all the time and all the rest of the things that [[best]]friends do ya know?!. But then its like things change once they meet new people the friendship starts to gadually fade away.I mean yall are still friends but a lot of things just change.Its like you get kicked to the side for another person.Whether its because of a girlfriend or boyfriend they get or just another friend and then you just dont matter anymore.
and thats just flat out not right no matter which way you put it! especially when you have been friends with a person for a couple years and they [[kick]] you to the curb for someone that they met like three months ago.They dont tell you anything anymore and you rarely talk.Then you start to feel like your just being shut out completely.Then you start to feel like maybe you put to much energy into a friendship that deserves little to none of your energy.But the thing is you care way too much just to say okay I dont wanna be you friend anymore because its more complex than that.You think about the past memories that you have shared and the secrets you told to one another.But I guess you have to look at the good and bad things about the friendship, then you choose.I mean its not a jealousy thing its just a right and wrong thing.I dont know, maybe its just me. But leave some comments and tell me how you feel about the situation.
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i really agree && understand what you're saying.
ReplyDeletesome people drift away unintentionally, but others, they just drift away. They KNOW they're drifting away, yet do nothing to stop it. Honestly buddy, i think this is one of those "I know im drifting away, but i'm not gonna do anything to stop it" situations. I really feel like the person KNOWS whats happening but isnt trying to stop it at all.
I'm not gonna tell you what decision to make, or to even make a decision really, but i'm just saying think about it. Is the friendship worth it ? If so, make that move && talk to the person or people. But if not, then just let it be && see how things will go from there.
hmm. i dont know the storyy behind all of this. but um dont let things like this stress you. If they are not trying to make the same effort as you to keep the friendship alive... maybe it is not worth being thier friend. There are billions of people in the world I am sure that not being friends with just one of them wont hurt. especiallyy if they just forget about you that fast....
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